ummmmm if i had to change one thing ,i think i would have married Heidi instead of my hubby LMFAO
runs up to heidi and gets my freak on...*giggles*
hmmmm......alot to think about...
BUT...even after 18 years of mental and
physical abuse...i have 2 wonderful kids...
and if i had not gone through that life...
i may not have met so many wonderful people
here online...and i would have missed out
on the chance to meet GaToR...and i would
NOT be as strong as i am today...so...
would i change it? i dont think i would...
cause im a better person today because of it...
I believe, that we are all here , at these "points of our lives", cuz of choices of paths.
For me, personally.........
I can only say that i wish i hadn't said things in anger to certain people.......for i can never take it back......to me,,,,,those words are "out there" and i can't get them back.
I can say, that there were/are times in my life, that i wonder, "why me??"........but.....i am one of those who believes that what ever happens ,,, happens for a reason,,, eventhough i may not understand it at the time........
I DON'T believe i would change anything i have done. as has been mentioned by some, i wouldn't be where i am, ifffffffffffffffffff........
and i found the love my life......through all my choices......... and for that reason.,i would NOT change anything.............
life is what we make of it.......
also......life is short..so follow thru w/ what you believe in....
I also believe we have one chance.........and that is how i personally live........
Excellent topic , Dave........
people, keep responding..... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
<font color="#D7DDC1" size="1">[ August 08, 2004 06:57 PM: Message edited by: Kassy ]</font>
like i said i wouldnt lke to change anything but i think perhaps if i could change something about myself that still wouldnt change anything that has happened in my life i would wish to not be so selfish but still wouldnt want to change what has/hasnt happened.
the things that i would have liked to have been
changed were never within my power to begin with
change is so scary...
because we have the vision added
called hindsight.
kinda like the kids that
had to sit in the back seat
of the Vista Cruiser...facing backwards...or
were they? facing backwards? i mean, they
didn't get to see where they were
going but they sure
got a good view of where
they had been...
but even that was lost
in the time it took
to happen.
who is better off?
those who face the future
never knowing...or
the rest of us who
seem to have been
there and
don't wanna go
back...or is it
ahead...???
i really don't know
or maybe i do
but haven't arrived at
that place yet...so
even this is not yet happening.
hope this all made
ya think a little.
did me.
thanks-
dave
<font size="4" face="Tempus Sans ITC, Verdana, Arial">that part of your post certainly made me go 'hmmmmmm'....Originally posted by Father Dave:
who is better off?
those who face the future
never knowing...or
the rest of us who
seem to have been
there and
don't wanna go
back...or is it
ahead...???
i really don't know
or maybe i do
but haven't arrived at
that place yet...so
even this is not yet happening.
my future doesn't have to be my past, the same way that my past doesn't have to be my future....because i have the power to make different choices to the ones i've made before
i don't want to go back but i do want to go ahead and every day i arrive at a place that requires me to go ahead, or back, but i would rather go ahead
going back can be easier a lot of the time...the known, the tried and tested, the failures as well as the victories....tempting so very tempting to slip into the known rather than face the risk of the unknown
for me, the unknown has always brought the biggest challenge, the biggest risk, and the potential of the biggest reward, as well as disappointment, but that's what risk is all about
after all, when i look back i already know what happened...but when i turn my head and look forward, i see possibilities, so many possibilities and i see more ahead than i do behind
memories should be honoured, our past made us who we are, but they should not handcuff us to our past or strike so much fear into us that we are frozen in time, not daring to move forward
<font color="#D7DDC1" size="1">[ August 10, 2004 04:35 AM: Message edited by: Fiona-A ]</font>
very well said dave, and yes it made me think.
And fiii, your words, remind me alot of how i feel about life too.
Well said, and thanks [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
well evertime someone fucks up in life they learn a lesson.... and all those lessons become wisdom.... so the only thing i would have done different...would have been to fuck up a lot more
<font color="#D7DDC1" size="1">[ August 11, 2004 04:16 AM: Message edited by: Non Phixion ]</font>
[img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img] .....Yeah, what he said... [img]smile.gif[/img]
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